if you don't respect the other person, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. if you don't know how to compromise, you're gonna have alot of trouble. if you can't talk openly about what goes on between you, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. and if you don't have a common set of values in life, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. your values must be alike.

i feel as if im once again dropping down this deep dark hole whch i've nearly climbed out of it. nearly to the edge of it but im slowly slipping down again. when. when can i totally get out of it. when can i totally leave it and not turn back even to glance. now how will i know if im doing the right thing. people always say follow your heart, but there are surely restrictions to it. i don't want to fall down this hole again to find myself all bruised and hurt once more. this time, im really not sure of anything. and i don't want to know too. will time turn back for me?

happy birthday :)